Firstly could anyone supply some sites which are linked to the IPFS on ENS domains?
Secondly, I know currently you cannot edit IPFS sites but is it possible to upload a chat system on to it?
Lastly where can I find developers to help me!
you can added your website on ipfs (html / js /css) use IPNS and dnslink to render that public. for chat parts you can see this project https://github.com/orbitdb/orbit-db.
However, where could I find a developer to help me set this up?? Finally, I can use Cloudflare to allow it to work as a normal site? Will this still keep it censor free and secure?
For the chat part, you can also use this demo project :https://github.com/ipfs-shipyard/peer-pad
you can host your site on ipfs on fleek.co really easily